I've dated two single moms, both with Baby Daddy Drama. Its such a shame people with a closed mind, don't have closed mouths! Many even have the audacity to act like you should be grateful that they are giving you the time of day, and that it's a priviledge for you to take another man's responsibility. These are the women I'm writing about. Your presence here, shaming tactics, etc.
I was not "looking" for any one to take care of us.... I am ready for you. Because if you are a good man, once you've developed a relationship with her kid, you won't leave. At one time it was a shame to be a single mom, now these women walk around like it's something to be proud of.
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I haven't been thinking about it at all to be honest. James I have a question for you, here it goes: You can definitely do better than her. They will be less likely to dick you around in the high drama sense because for a single mother being in a relationship is very important - it is highly unlikely that they would want casual sex vs.
To use God as a way to justify your first sin Fornication, and condone your out of wedlock bastard baby is just... Why would a man not want a single woman with NO kids, who, by the way, chose NOT to be a single mother because she is aware of the consequences of raising children while bringing different men in and out of her children's lives? Our primary goal is to raise very healthy and emotionally stable children. Try opting out garbage and focusing on productivity.
Do not try to save them because you feel sorry For them, like others have said, you are the last priority. You have a dad in your life and you act like this? But it only lasts so long because no one wants to raise another man's kids. How very sad, and scary. Guys have to start understanding the difference between Ladies and Hoes. More like guys don't want to pick YOU.
To all the women out there without children who are considering having some one day,fyi "don't give milk away for free and then try to sell the cow"..... Now, my girlfriend has a 2 yo girl. No man wants to spend his time cleaning up the mess of another man and play second fiddle to him and those kids in a relationship. Then, as time sets in, she will start to unfold her plan. Once she has you, meaning, once she ropes you into developing a relationship with her child, you will move to the very end of her priority list. Because it's a free Country, and that's your preference.
Doing it right takes even more guts and balls. When I see your children kissing you like if you were their goddess, when I see your oldest child receive all the scholarships at graduation, when I visit your house and it smells like vanilla, when you go out with us and you know how to slam a few tequilas, when we go to your church and hear you playing the piano, when your kids win all the awards at the gymnastics competitions, when you gave up the millionaire company you founded and owned because your love for your family was larger than money, when I see how much people love you, and when I see how much more you still give us, I tell you with confidence that anyone who would dare to date you is gaining one of the most precious jewels of a person I have ever known. Being a single mom is really bothering me. Disciplining my child is something that I do need help with. Kept straight along his way which led close beside the brush in which Numa lay concealed.
Well, I agree somewhat but your views being as negative as they are make me wonder how much time you've given to get to know these women before you get into a serious relationship. Your credit is poor. Oh sweety being a single mother is what you make it!
What is it like to be a single mom after many dates? I tried to be with her but it wasn't my job to rescue her because I knew her long before we got together and kept my distance once she got with this guy, ignoring my warnings from the start. I agree with lilMissLady. Now that I've pronounced "No more single moms! The remedy for all this is simple:
- Not the men who choose to be married to the women who they want to pro-create with. You definitely dodged a bullet. And I hope soon we talk about marriage. I need some feedback Mr.
- Reasoned at 13 that if you don't have sex, you don't have kids. One divorce and years later, he is now marrying a woman with five kids and he is happy. Stay away from these infestations called Single mothers. The single mother on the other hand tries to wear her dysfunction like a badge of honor. First man I've dated or brought into the house since the separation. One sometimes hears a similar opinion voiced by divorced men who have already had their own first families -- I wouldn't mind having another family, but, man, I don't think I can handle raising a nother baby, perhaps a partner with already-partially-grown children who still require parenting, but not so much late-night rocking and feeding.
Single mother cannot offer this to a man because they have already offered this to some douche-bag who didn't even deserve to get such priceless gift of life PS: You did not get yourself pregnant. I'm not saying things will not work out in that "set-up", but if it does, it would be one of those rare cases. I am a single mom of 3...
Happy being a SIMP. Come mai qualcuno frequenterebbe una mamma single? Nine times out of ten, the Single Mothers especially in the black community are Single Mothers with kids out-of-wedlock, who, most times, end up having more than one kid from different "no good" men. The feedback you provide will help us show you more relevant content in the future. Maybe there's a chance she's either working the stripper pole or...
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I promise to make you feel valued and loved. I think your blog is mean. Kids also mean you'll have to abstain from things. They will never tell you this. One sometimes hears a similar opinion voiced by divorced men who have already had their own first families -- I wouldn't mind having another family, but, man, I don't think I can handle raising a nother baby, perhaps a partner with already-partially-grown children who still require parenting, but not so much late-night rocking and feeding. Real men don't tear down others but uplift them.
A "Real Man" doesn't say what you are saying. Any man with self-respect would have a serious problem with it. The feedback you provide will help us show you more relevant content in the future.